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 You just change the habits.  Javed Chaudhry

 It was the early days of my practical life, I came to an elderly intellectual in Lahore and asked him what I want to be a successful man, what should I do, he smiles and speaks in a sweet voice and then join the company of successful people.  ۔

 The elderly scholar said that human beings are always affected by companionship; if you sit among rich people, you too become wealthy.  You become intellectual, scholarly and extravagant when you sit in the company of the successful people, and you gradually start to succeed.

 Elderly intellectuals say that if human behavior is the opposite, then bad companionship can also have an effect, such as successful people who spend most of their time in unsuccessful people, intellectuals who spend a lot of time in ignorance and  Children who spend time with children with unhealthy habits often become like people. The elderly scholar said that if you want to be successful, start spending more time among successful people, the impact of their success will gradually start to appear on you as well.

 I didn't fully understand them at the time, but I nevertheless followed that and I started researching successful people, I also read biographies of the world's most successful people.  To begin with, I have met countless successful people and I have been collecting the secrets of successful people success, but I was most impressed with the businessman of Karachi during this trip.

 A friend of mine approached me, he is a self-made business man, he belonged to a very poor family, he studied tuition, completed his education, worked as a secretary in a private company,  The owner of the company was a visionary man, he was impressed, he studied the owner's personality, made a list of the owner's good habits, he adopted habits, left a job, started a small business for ten thousand rupees and twenty years.  I became a billionaire, it was a great case study of success and wealth, I asked them the success formula, so my question was Has opened a new door.

 He said that I was secretary to a Seth thirty-five years ago, one day Seth descended from his big and expensive car, Seth's personal servant ran towards him, somebody opened his door, somebody opened his briefcase.  Pulled out and someone picked up his glasses, his watch and his files. I was watching this scene from inside the glass. I thought then, what is the difference between this set and me? I had a bit of a light wave in my brain and I realized that there was a difference between me and just a few habits.

 All my habits are like the poor, while Seth has adopted the habits of the rich, I immediately leaned on my desk, I picked up paper and pencils and I started to list the habits of the poor and the rich  Slow down, they spend most of their time in wasteful tasks, while rich people are active and spend a moment in constructive and positive tasks.

 Poor people quit learning, while rich people continue to learn new things all their life, poor people wait for committee, lottery and raid, while rich people make their own lottery, invent their lottery.  They gather and make people their committees and put people's pockets in their pockets; poor people are afraid of taking risks, accepting challenges and taking on an annuity, while the rich people have a lifetime of challenges and risks.  Revolves around, poor people are less willing, they cover their heads and leave their feet naked while rich people are less satisfied. Yes, they also cover the head and arrange to hide the feet.

 The poor man soon becomes frustrated; he loses heart on the small failure. When the rich man strolls to the last breath, if one place fails, he moves to another city, another country.  Poor people are often robbed of work while rich people give their work to worship, they never sting in their work and poor people get angry quickly.

 They complain all the time, their lips are often complained of somehow and they are stubborn while the rich people are slow tempered, they have no time to complain and complain and they often  Avoid stubborn times and bigotry, I made a list of my own and my Seth's habits at the same time and I found out that the only difference between Seth and me is habits, if I adopt habits like rich people today, I too am rich  Maybe because I immediately gave up the habits of the poor and got into the habits of Seth, so the wealth smiled at me and I was twenty years old. Seth stood beyond.

 I listened to them very carefully, they said that there is only a difference of habits between successful man and failing man, healthy person and sick person, good man and bad man, scholar and ignorant man, and Sufi and bully.  The habits of a failing man are like those of the unsuccessful people, the sick person has the habits of the sick, the bad habits of the bad are the same.

 Lives as ignorant ignorant people and habits have the same habits as bullying, whereas Sufi has the same qualities as Sufis, habits like scholars in the universe, good human habits in good people, Healthy people habits in healthy people and  Successful people have habits of successful people, it is just a habit that makes us good or bad, successful or unsuccessful and beggary or Seth, and if we change our habits, it is not too late to change our class.

 I mocked them and asked them, but I have seen many poor people.  Those who have habits like the rich and I often see rich people who have the same habits as the poor.  They said with a smile and with conviction that you are right, but start a new study today, you watch the poor people who have rich people's habits, you will be surprised to see these people  They will not be poor for a long time, all those people we call self-made are basically people who take up the habits of the rich in poverty, because Allah has mercy on them and they come out of poverty.  Are.

 So rich people with poor habits do not stay rich for long, the people or families we see traveling from the rich to the poor are the ones who suffer from poverty or failure habits while traveling.  So while watching and success goes out of their hands like the sand of a fist, fluctuations are part of life, even the poorest person in the world has a half chance to change their circumstances in life.  While rich people are also the target of snakes and ladders in some areas of life, but due to habits Soon the rich and the poor become permanently poor again.

 It is history that all the rich people of the world must suffer a severe loss once in life, they are poor half a time, but their habits, their skills bring them back to their place while the poor are poor.  Habits are wasting every opportunity to get rich. So the difference is just the habits, you just change the habits, your circumstances will change, I found them strange but over time I started to get involved in this philosophy, I realized that this philosophy is not just philosophy, it is  The magic is, this is a great practical tactic of success, a skill that can transform you from both the inside and the outside, and then watch the change.